Sunday, August 24, 2014

The Big Book of Submission

I'm honored to be a part of the virtual tour for my first-ever print publication, The Big Book of Submission, which features my piece "Story Time." I wrote a few months back about how utterly floored I am to see my words in print, and truthfully, the thought of it still thrills me. I've been stark naked in front of strangers (on the internet and in person) more times than I can count, but this is an entirely different brand of exhibitionism.
"Story Time" is based on a real scene with my top of three years. When I announced that our fantasies would be printed, he told me what a turn-on it was that our scene would be read by other kinky and curious folks.

Nothing could make me happier than sharing my kinky thoughts with anyone who cares to read them, so I'm excited to present a sneak peak of "Story Time," as told by yours truly. It's going to get a little meta in here, since I'll be reading aloud a story about a woman being forced to read a different story to her dominant ... still with me? Hope you enjoy <3


Taking a bite out of the Big Book of Submission


Want more? Follow along on the virtual tour:
August 1 Lusty Lady
August 2 Clitical
August 3 Robot Lovers Prey on the Lonely
August 4 BDSM Book Reviews
August 5 Blhippiechick Reviews
August 6 Reviews @ HedoVibes
August 7 Valerie Alexander
August 8 Lady Smut
August 9 Kitten Boheme
August 10 Jade A. Waters
August 11 Rose de Fer
August 12 Erzabet’s Enchantments
August 13 The Gestalt Boudoir
August 14 The (Really) Naughty Corner
August 15 Tamsin’s Superotica
August 16 Sex, Food, and Writing
August 17 L.C. Spoering
August 18 Teresa Noelle Roberts
August 19 Can’t Talk podcast
August 20 M Marie
August 21 Corvidae Dreams
August 22 Septimus Reviews
August 23 Malin James
August 24 Inara Serene (moi)
August 25 D to the /s
August 26 Bitches n Prose
August 27 Property of Potter
August 28 Laila Blake
August 29 Louisa Bacio Love Knows No Bounds
August 30 Quixotic Orchid
August 31 Sex in Words
September 1 Jade Melisande
September 2 Ashley R Lister


Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Those Boys: Finding Truth in Fiction

Alison Tyler's new novelette
A quick confession: I read this juicy little novelette on a plane. That was probably not the wisest choice, knowing how Alison Tyler's words make me twist, smirk, and sometimes audibly gasp (see also: Dark Secret Love). Those Boys was no exception to my love of Alison's literary smut.

Quietly powerful dom Sandy encounters one of "those boys," the kind who know just how gorgeous they are and preen like peacocks, and immediately sees that what he really craves is submission. Sometimes the most swaggeringly confident alphas are just the type who need to be taken down. Hard. Sandy wastes no time in bringing his new prize back to his pet Vanessa (the same Vanessa from Those Girls), and the three of them begin to unravel their collective fantasies and needs.

The sex? Hot. The kink? Even hotter, and with twists that even my dirty mind didn't expect. But the most beautiful part of this work of fiction is how much it rings true. Sandy needs Vanessa (and his new third) every bit as much as she needs him, though he might not admit it to her in so many words. Even the most hardcore fantasies are infused with reality. When Sandy chains Vanessa to her writing desk and leaves for the day, he ensures her safety by leaving her a key, just in case. Rather than detracting from the fantasy, the elements of authentic attention to safety make the story feel real to a kinkster like me. I savored every second of this novelette, and have earmarked a few choice bits to read to my dominant on some not-too-distant night.

Want to read Those Boys for yourself? You're in luck! You can pick up a copy for your Kindle for just $5.99. Go do it now—you won't regret it.

Thank you for these words, Alison, and for giving me a few new ideas to explore with my top. And thank you to the wonderful Go Deeper Press for the ARC of Those Boys.

Follow along on the Those Boys blog tour:

July 17th—Lucy Felthouse
July 18th—Nicole Gestalt
July 19th—Karen Blue
July 20th—Jade A. Waters
July 21st—Those Boys official release date
July 22nd—Inara Serene (moi)
July 23rd—Annabeth Leong
July 24th—A.M. Hartnett
July 25th—Delilah Night
July 26th—Oleander Plume
July 27th—Erotica for All
July 31st—Helena Black

Thursday, July 17, 2014

I'm in Trouble

Again.

It seems I'm in trouble more often than not, though I suppose I shouldn't be surprised. I'm snarkier than I have any right to be. The odd thing is, I know exactly what mouthing off will get me, and it isn't the fun kind of punishment. No, it's the kind that ends with tears and a purple ass and a bite mark that could have been inflicted by a tiny shark. And yet... still I misbehave.
These were pretty much made for me.

So, what am I doing to get myself out of trouble? Everything I can. It's tricky right now, since he's out of town. My usual get-out-of-trouble-free card is a threesome. Pro tip: show up at your dom's door with a surprise extra woman, and you'll likely be forgiven for whatever dumb things you said the other day.*

But long-distance, I've had to get a little more creative. I sent him a few dirty pictures, but for us that's nothing out of the ordinary. I made a blog specifically for him, to curate images of scenes I hope to try with him someday. And, of course, images that I know will make him hard. I'm even thinking of showing him my latest story, which is (of course) about him. I never reveal my unedited, unfinished works to him, so this would be out of my comfort zone. Hell, I even suggested a suitable punishment, and not a fun-ishment. One that actually makes me as nervous as it makes me wet.

Any other ideas?

*Note: This is assuming you have an open relationship, and/or have negotiated threesomes in the past. I have specifically asked my dominant if surprise threesomes are okay, and he happily agreed. Also, he is casually dating/sleeping with the woman in question, so it wasn't completely out of the blue.

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about

Hmmm. How about a snippet of my latest work in progress about my most recent punishment? It is, like most of my writing, based on a true experience with my dominant.


“I only have three rules. Just three.”
I glanced up from sucking his cock and tilted my head. Why the sudden lecture? Who stops a blowjob to talk about rules?
“One. What’s one, slut?”
“Um. Um, I—“
“What. Is. One.”
“Don’t be a cunt?”
“Mmhmm. And what’s two?”
“Nice mouths only.” I dipped my face back down to his rather lovely cock to give a quick demonstration.
“And I suppose you’re doing decently at that one. Aren’t you?”
I let his cock slide from between my lips. “I’m trying, sir.”
“I see that, whore.”
I put his cock back in my mouth and savored the taste of him, and the feel of that smooth hardness on my tongue.
“And what, my little toy, is the last rule?”
I stopped sucking and hung my head, because now I knew what this was about.
“You must be dumber than you look if you think taking your mouth off my cock is going to make things better for you. Don’t make me ask you twice.”
I lifted my chin and locked onto his dark eyes.
“No glitter.” It was barely a whisper.
“What was that?”
“No glitter. I’m not supposed to wear glitter, sir.”
“Oh. Yes, that’s right. Strange, because from where I’m standing, your face is sparkling like a goddamn vampire.”
“But real vampires don’t—“
“Really right now?”
“No, sir. I’m sorry sir, I’m really, really sorry.” And I was.
“I don’t think you’re sorry. I think you’re sorry that you’re in trouble. If you really cared about pleasing me, why would you break such a simple rule?”
Good question. 

Monday, June 23, 2014

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?

I've gone by many titles. Domme, Ma'am, submissive, top, bottom, and mistress, to name a few. My current title is "toy." I am my dominant's plaything, to own, loan, and do with as he wishes, so it seems fitting. I am also his submissive, and his property, but our "official" relationship (ha) is owner/toy.

I love titles. It makes me feel safe and cared for to know that I have this carved-out place with my top that a title indicates. Titles also turn me on like nothing else. When he calls me a "good toy" or a "good pet," I turn into a little puddle where Inara used to be. Nothing puts me in my place so quickly as a tug on my collar and a reminder that I'm his.

Sunday, June 22, 2014

Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?

The most important piece of my kink attire is my collar. I'm only recently collared, so I'm still not used to the feel of the ever-present metal links locked around my neck. It's this wonderful reminder that what I have with my dominant is permanent, and always with me.

In terms of kinky costumes, you won't find a woman who loves to dress up more than I do. French maid, school girl, naughty secretary, exotic dancer, slutty teacher—you name it, I've probably got the outfit in the plastic box beneath my bed. Dressing up makes me feel beautiful, sensual, and wild, and I can tell it pleases my partners, which in turn makes me happy. My current favorite outfit is this pink, sparkly number (see the picture), because it makes me feel more confident in my body than anything else.
Inara's Favorite Outfit

Saturday, June 21, 2014

Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?

Absolutely. I've been known to write an erotic story or two (ahem), simply because putting words to my dirty thoughts makes me happy. I'll write a story for my dominant, and he gets to peek into what makes me wet, what makes me tick. Once, he even made me write a story as a punishment (don't ask).

I also love to sing, and I've written a few kink-centric songs over the years. Does that count? Let's just say that counts. Maybe I'll get up the courage to post them here someday.

Kink is such an essential part of me that it would be well near impossible to keep it from bleeding into my other interests, and vice-versa.

Friday, June 20, 2014

Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?

I don't really have an opinion on it, quite frankly, perhaps because I've never partaken myself. Sure, I've cybered, and sent plenty of kinky g-chats, but I've never played online with someone I didn't know in real life. It just doesn't hold any appeal for me. I don't have a problem with it, though. If online D/s makes you happy, the power to you. Just stay safe out there!

Thursday, June 19, 2014

Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?

Well that depends on the audience, doesn't it? With you guys, I'm about as open as a girl can possibly get. With certain friends, I'll tell just about anything that's on my kinky little mind. But with my parents, not so much. If I feel like people will "get" that kink doesn't equate abuse, I'm happy to open up about my proclivities, but if I sense judgement, I don't want to get into it. Even amongst kinky folks, some of my fetishes (rape play, for instance) are considered extreme, so I sometimes will hold back even with friends.

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?

Listed in order of personal importance to me:

1. Honesty. Without trust, a relationship is nothing. I want my partner to feel comfortable telling me absolutely anything. If I look fat in these jeans, I want to know about it. If I said something hurtful, or annoying, or uncomfortable, I want to know about that, too. And I need to know that every word that comes out of my partner's mouth is true.

2. Kindness. Basic human kindness sometimes feels like a lost art. Being a good person, in the most basic sense of the word, is one of the most important things we can do. I don't think I could ever be with someone who wasn't kind, at their core.

3. Intelligence. I need someone who can keep up an intelligent conversation with me, and challenge my ideas. I want an intellectual sparring partner just as must as I want someone who can wrestle me down in the bedroom.

What do you find important in a partner?

Tuesday, June 17, 2014

Small Miracle

I am holding my words in my hands. "Story Time," the page reads, "Inara Serene." Those are my words, printed, laid out on a page, and neatly justified. My thoughts, my fantasies, my experiences—they're set in ink now, and something about that is far too exciting and surreal to fully process. I never thought I'd see something I wrote with that special book formatting. You know, with the first letter of the chapter set in extra-large, bolded font.

I'm just going to take a moment to quietly celebrate how incredible it is that my story will (hopefully) turn on other people, and maybe even strike a chord of recognition in them. I get to share my kinks with anyone who happens to pick up this book, and that, to me, is a small miracle.

PS-if you're curious, the book in question is The Big Book of Submission, and it has 68 other short stories of kinky goodness.


Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?

Yes and no. I'm still a singer/songwriter. I still love books more than I can say, and feel more at home in a cafe than in a club.

But I've discovered that there's a whole world of kinky folks who gather together at munches and events, and that has definitely influenced how I spend my time. I love going to community gatherings, and since my communities are largely kinky, the way I spend my time is certainly influenced by my kink.

Monday, June 16, 2014

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?

I might get some flack for this from other kinky folks, but I honestly don't think vanilla relationships are all that different from kinky ones. The same basic underlying principle applies: communicate. Communicate until you're blue in the face, until you're sure your partner understands you, and then communicate some more. The same goes for monogamous and polyamorous folks, and anyone in between. If you have metamors (the lover of your lover), guess what? Communicate with them, too. If everyone simply talked to their partner more, and really listened to them too, the world would have a lot more happier couples.

Sunday, June 15, 2014

Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)

Hands-down, not even a question, my favorite BDSM book is Dark Secret Love: A Story of Submission by Alison Tyler. It's like Ms. Tyler listened in on every one of my darkest fantasies, the ones I still don't dare to speak out loud, and wrote them down in the most beautiful prose you'll ever read. The characters are rich, the writing smooth like a really, really good shot of espresso (none of that Starbucks crap. You know the kind I mean), and the scenes are beyond delicious.

Lines from the book still echo in my mind, more than a year after I first read it. It's permanently eched on my consciousness, and I find myself fantasizing about chapters from the book as if they were my own desires. Because they are. Somehow this book managed to reflect the essence of why I submit, the essence of what D/s means for me. If you haven't read it, go pick up a copy. Right now. I'll wait.

Saturday, June 14, 2014

Day 20: Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.

Honestly, there isn't much these days. I don't personally understand the appeal of every single kink, nor do I personally practice all of them, but none of them mystify me. Kinks aren't always something you can understand intellectually, especially when they aren't your own, and I'm okay with that.

I am perpetually curious about one thing: what do dom/mmes think about in a scene? I'm a switch, but so sub-leaning that I suspect my mindset is far different from my more dominant counterparts, and I'm aching to know what goes through my sadist's mind as he's beating me. Does he feel that same undeniable craving, that same ache that I feel when I've gone too long without submitting? Is it simply the other side of the same coin? Or is it something else entirely?

If you're a dom/mme, pretty please write me a comment, or shoot me an email. I'd love to know what's bouncing around in that beautiful mind of yours.

Thursday, June 12, 2014

Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life?

Let me count the ways.

The prompt says "unexpected," so I assume noting how much sexual gratification it has given me would be off-topic. But that's a huge part of it. All these fantasies I never thought could come true suddenly became the bread and butter of my sex life. I was surrounded by folks who considered bondage as commonplace in a bedroom as milk in coffee, and that has made all the difference. The strong sense of sexual shame I'd carried with me my whole life, knowing that I desired impossible, dark things, ebbed away.

I've also met more friends than I can count through these communities, and discovered more about myself than I'd ever have thought possible. Literally everything important about my life has been tinged, impacted, and steered by kink, even if the influence was indirect. I would not be the woman I am today if I'd never picked up that first crop, or let that first collar be buckled around my neck.

Wednesday, June 11, 2014

Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

This sort of dovetails with Day 16, but I'll reiterate: being kinky, and especially being a submissive woman, doesn't mean I'm not a feminist. I respect myself, and I absolutely respect other women. I choose to submit, but that has no bearing on how I think women deserve to be treated in general. Since when do bedroom antics dictate politics? I do think it's important to examine where these desires come from, as we obviously don't exist in a vacuum, but fantasies are fantasies. My top will whip me until I cry, but he'd never lay a hand on a woman who didn't want to be hurt. In fact, the idea of accidentally crossing that boundary terrifies him (as well it should). My desires don't say anything about me. I'm kinky. So what?

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves?

The dominant men (and for some reason, it always seems to be dominant men) who assume they have the right to touch me or hit on me at a public event. It's especially rude when I'm wearing a collar, and clearly at the event with someone else. I swear, my partner can't leave me for even a minute without someone sidling over to "sneakily" stare at my chest and inquire about my kinks. I'm all for meeting new folks, especially kinky folks, but there's a clear line between chatting and hitting on someone. It would be nice to be able to go to a kink party without anyone crossing that line.

Monday, June 9, 2014

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

Being kinky has caused a fair amount of friction between me and my non-kinky friends. I've been accused of being anti-feminist and hypocritical, and had to defend the most basic parts of my identity. I was recently collared, and when I told my best friend, her reaction was incredulity, then disgust. She couldn't understand the appeal of it, and she was (and still is) convinced that it's demeaning to all women. It's incredibly frustrating to know that my closest friend doesn't accept such a core part of me.

Sunday, June 8, 2014

Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try

As much as role play turns me on, I've never played out my fondest fantasy: school girl and professor. I've been longing to try it out, but I'm not sure my top would be up for it. I suppose I should just ask, but it can be a little scary to suggest a scene. Anyways, I'd like to dress up in a short school girl skirt, topped off with a thin, white shirt and lacy white thigh-highs. In my fantasy, I've gotten a less-than-satisfactory grade, though I'm usually a straight-A student (I know, it's cliche, but hey, it's my fantasy and I can do what I want). My professor calls me into office hours, and tells me how bad I've been, and suggests a few ways to fix it. Over-the-knee spankings are most definitely involved, and the feel of his slacks on my bare thighs.

And now, I'm off to go suggest this to my top...

Saturday, June 7, 2014

Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink?

In a word, the difference is, well, a word. A safe word, to be exact. In my fantasies, there's nothing I can do to stop a given situation. The torture, the captivity, and the pain are all very real, and I'm entirely powerless. In my real-life play, though, I always have a safe word. Mine is a simple "red," if you're curious. I can count the number of times I've safeworded on one hand, but in every scene, no matter how intense, I always know that I can use it. It's always in the back of my mind, often on the tip of my tongue.

Does it make it a little less hot for me? Perhaps. But there are plenty of delicious ways to play with boundaries within the parameters of a consensual scene. The safe word is just as much for my protection as for my dominant's, and my sadist, to whom I'm collared, tells me he could never play without one, and without the knowledge that a submissive is fully comfortable using it. It's nice to fantasize about a world in which I surrender completely, but in reality, it's comforting to know that my top would stop at any moment if I said the (safe) word.

Friday, June 6, 2014

Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you

How to put words to something so essential to my identity? What's the appeal of breathing? Eating? Sleeping? For me, it's a basic need, and when it isn't met, I'm not quite whole.

I crave that sweet moment of utter powerlessness, of knowing that no matter what I say or do, I have no say in what happens to me. I need the responsibility to rest on someone else's shoulders, if only for an hour or two. I need to be pushed to my limit, and beyond it. And after I'm beautifully broken, I need to be held and comforted, and told that everything is okay.

I don't find kink appealing. For me, it's a necessity.

Thursday, June 5, 2014

Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had.

A while back, I had a partner whose fetish was to come up with the most ridiculous scenarios possible, and make me enact them in public. Never a dull moment with that one.

The most bizarre situation was likely the incident of the Cone of Shame. I don't know how many of you have seen Up, the charming Disney-Pixar film, but there's a scene in which the adorable dog is wearing a plastic cone, the type veterinarians and groomers make pets wear to prevent biting at their wounds or flea medicine. Anyway, the dog says, "I do not like the cone of shame," in the most adorable dog-voice you can imagine.

My partner decided that at our next public play event, he'd force me to wear a plastic cone, and lead me around like a sad little puppy. As you might imagine, I wasn't especially keen on the idea. He threatened me with the prospect for weeks, and i was never quite sure if he was teasing or serious. As it turns out, he was entirely serious, and I spent an evening wearing the horrid cone. It didn't match my corset, or my heels, and it drew giggles, stares, and inquiries all night.

In retrospect? Fairly hilarious.

Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?

It's all about consent. Say it with me, nice and slow: con-sent. Even the most extreme actions are still completely ethical, if that magic ingredient of consent is present. Likewise, without consent, even sweet, vanilla sex is unethical assault without it.

My personal boundaries are perhaps a little broader than most. I live for edge play, pushing limits, pretending to fight back. But I believe kink is neither inherently ethical nor inherently unethical. Like any other action, it's all about the people involved.

Tuesday, June 3, 2014

Day 10: What are your hard limits?

To my knowledge, I have but one hard limit.

No blood. Ever. In any capacity. Accidents happen, of course, and I've had a partner accidentally make me bleed, but that's the end of the scene, and I need some serious aftercare, aka chocolate and cuddles, afterwards.

Monday, June 2, 2014

Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy

"Hit Me Like a Man" by The Pretty Reckless is a gorgeous account of one woman's kinks. Give it a listen, and I think you'll see why I find it so erotic and compelling.


Sunday, June 1, 2014

Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic

Don't mind if I do! Bondage, armbinder, and a spreader bar? Welcome to my kinky heaven.


Saturday, May 31, 2014

Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?

I've been eagerly awaiting this question, because when it comes to toys, I absolutely do play favorites. My Magic Wand is the best thing to ever happen to my sex life. I use it solo, with partners, and I've even leant it to a few (close) friends to try out over their panties. I know the intensity of a Magic Wand isn't for everyone, but for me, it's the surest way to reach orgasm, and an amazing addition to every kind of sex.

Friday, May 30, 2014

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy

I think I've lost any objective ability to discern what's "weird" in the realm of kink. Is power play weird? Is it weird to want to give a partner a lap dance? I don't really know anymore.

The strangest one that comes to mind is a fantasy I've been toying with for quite some time. I'm kneeling at the feet of my dominant, and he orders me to lie with my cheek pressed against the cool floor. He takes a well-shined leather shoe and presses it into my face, hard enough to leave tiny indentations on my cheek, and tells me how worthless I am. He says he'll let me up if I kiss his shoe, and I have no choice but to obey.

Not exactly strange by kinky standards, but maybe a little odd? You tell me!

Thursday, May 29, 2014

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?

Okay, I need to warn you, this is going to sound like something I made up for a good erotic story, but I swear on my Hitachi, this is entirely factual.

My first kinky experience was at a party with eight or so other kinky ladies, where we baked cupcakes, had a few jello shots, and hit each other with various kinky implements. I tried out my first rope harness, learned to wield a crop, and discovered just how hot a bound woman at my feet could make me.

All in all, not a bad first time.

Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

Oh, yes. The time I fashioned handcuffs out of printer paper and scotch tape comes to mind. Or perhaps all those sessions of "Houdini," in which a friend would tie me up, and I'd try to wriggle free. I secretly hoped that I wouldn't be able to break out of the binds, but alas, her ties weren't exactly Shibari status.

In the realm of less-subtle hints at kinky tendencies, I used to tie myself to the bedpost with a sock (yes, a sock, not a scarf. Perhaps I wasn't the brightest of kids) and fantasize about a cruel, powerful man who'd take me captive. How's that for a hint?

Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

I've always known I had dark, unspeakable desires. Long before I knew they were sexual, I recognized that I wanted to be captured, subdued, even hurt. I was terrified of what these thoughts might mean, and it wasn't until college that I fell in with a sexually open crowd, and learned that there was a whole community of folks who had these desires. What's more, I could potentially meet someone and explore these scenarios, make them real. The first time I spoke with another submissive lady, I felt more alive—more free—than I had ever felt. It was golden, and scary, and wonderful. She told me all about the red flags to watch for, and how to hunt down my first dom. Through her, I discovered the kink scene in my city, and met people I keep in touch with even now.

I'm forever grateful to the woman who showed me the ropes without ever laying a finger on me. There's something unique and special about the bond between two submissive women, and I feel lucky to have discovered it so early.

Monday, May 26, 2014

Day 2: List Your Kinks

Oh dear. I'm afraid it would be much easier to list what I'm NOT into, but I'll give it the old college try. Ahem.


  • Schoolgirl
  • Choking
  • Hair Pulling
  • Spanking
  • Restraints
  • Rope, Rope, Rope
  • Collars
  • Biting
  • Roleplay
  • Talking Dirty
  • Talking Really, Really Dirty
  • Humiliation
  • Public Play
  • Voyeurism and Exhibitionism
  • Erotic Stories (but you knew that)
  • Much, Much More

Sunday, May 25, 2014

Day 1: Dom, Sub, Switch?

Let's play a game of 20 30 questions, shall we? I've always wanted to try out the 30 Days of Kink writing prompts, and now's my chance! I'll be tackling one kinkalicious question a day for the next month, on my personal escapades into the delightful world of BDSM.

Dom, sub, switch?  What parts of BDSM interest you?  Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

I'm a sub-leaning switch, though I certainly do enjoy a good topping session. It really depends on the partner. There are people I couldn't imagine ever topping, and people whom I could never imagine topping me. I do tend to be more toppy with women, for whatever reason, but I'm definitely open to a hot femdom-style partnership (ladies?).

For me, it's all about the power. It's submission that I crave, being forced to think of absolutely nothing but the person holding the leash (or whip, or flogger...). My kinkiness stems from a desire I've had since I was little, to be entirely in the power of another. The switchy part of my kink entered much later, and is essentially the whipped cream on top of a subby sundae.

Sunday, May 18, 2014

An Introduction

Yours truly. Yes, this is how I always read.
Why hello. I'm new around here, and thought I should perhaps introduce myself before sharing every one of my innermost fantasies, and letting you into my rather kinky mind.

All you need to know for now is that I'm a 20-something bookworm with a fetish for learning. Also chocolate. And, well, actual fetishes.

This is my space to write down my fantasies, share little teasers from my published smut, and play the exhibitionist. Thank you for playing along.

<3 Inara