Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves?

The dominant men (and for some reason, it always seems to be dominant men) who assume they have the right to touch me or hit on me at a public event. It's especially rude when I'm wearing a collar, and clearly at the event with someone else. I swear, my partner can't leave me for even a minute without someone sidling over to "sneakily" stare at my chest and inquire about my kinks. I'm all for meeting new folks, especially kinky folks, but there's a clear line between chatting and hitting on someone. It would be nice to be able to go to a kink party without anyone crossing that line.